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HAVEN HILLS NEEDS YOUR HELP NOW! SERVICES BEING THREATENED
Dear Friends and Supporters,
“You saved my life”. “If I hadn’t found Haven Hills I would probably be dead or in jail”. These are two very common comments women in our Shelter tell us about the impact Haven Hills had on their lives. Right now our life-saving services are in jeopardy and we need your help because the Governor is proposing to eliminate funding to domestic violence programs.
More than 3 women a day are killed by their batterers in this country, and most are killed within two weeks after they leave the relationship. Haven Hills has been saving lives of victims of domestic violence in this community for over 30 years through our 24/7 hotline; 30-day crisis shelter; transitional housing and employment program; outreach counseling program and Teen program. Women enter our programs as victims of abuse relying on our life saving services and emerge as self reliant survivors beginning a life free of domestic abuse, becoming valuable contributors to our community. Thousands of women and children have been helped by the programs and services we offer.
We are one of only two shelter-based domestic violence programs in the San Fernando Valley, an area with almost 700,000 women over age 18. In total, there are only 54 crisis shelter beds and accommodations for 27 families in the transitional shelter programs for the entire Valley. Because 1 in 4 women report that they have been in an abusive relationship sometime in their life, this means that potentially 167,000 women will need our services. Just in our community.
The Governor is proposing elimination of governmental funding to domestic violence programs in the state. If he succeeds Haven Hills will immediately lose over $350,000 of its $1.5 million budget. This means program services will be discontinued or severely curtailed and the women and children who are the most vulnerable in our community will be in greater danger. Domestic violence is a public safety and health care issue in our society and the root cause of many other societal ills. The development of our services came out of the need to provide safety, support, advocacy and awareness to break the cycle of abuse. Law enforcement agencies and healthcare professionals rely on us to provide these services to help victims to break the cycle of violence and decrease recidivism. Without our services the community will experience an increase in public safety and health care costs exceeding the dollars being lost.
In addition to the prospect of losing government funding, the current economic climate has significantly impacted our donations from individuals and foundations. We need your financial support to maintain the services that are vital to saving lives of women and children in your community. Please visit our website at www.havenhills.org to make a donation now. Your support will make a difference.
Please contact me directly to learn more about Haven Hills’ services and/or the impact of the economic crisis to the victims of domestic abuse. I can be reached at 818-887-7481 x13 or by e-mail at sberdine@havenhills.org.
Thank you,
Sara J. Berdine Executive Director
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7th Annual Haven Hills Teen Summit
A GREAT SUCCESS!!
A day of interactive art and activism on preventing violence and teen dating violence
The Teen Summit held April 4 at CSUN was a tremendous success! Over 180 teens from many local high schools attended the summit and participated in workshops such as Media Madness; Hip Hop 101; Fresh Paint and School of Rock. The workshops were taught by professionals in the respective fields. For more information and photos of the event click here.
Maria's Story
I have lived many pains, many hurts, many cries, many laughter’s, much hunger, much need, so cold, so much pain, physical pain, mental pain, all types of abuse, physical abuse, any abuse. I was there and back again, I fell not once but several times. Being a victim of domestic violence, led to live a life of lies, led me to alcohol, led me to drugs and led me to the streets. I cried, I bled, I was hurt, and I was in so much agonizing pain. No one other than those that have live a life much similar to mine, will never understand the why’s and how come’s. So my answer as of date is you will never understand why and how come, because I don’t either. You get sucked into life of abuse and before you know it, you are in too deep and think, “how did this happen, what did I do, how stupid could I have been.” You start to believe what your abuser says about you. Dum, stupid, slut, worthless, nobody, etc…. the list never ends…. So now depression hits. Fear grows.
Well my name is Maria and I have lived more than half of my life being abused. Many years using drugs; hurting the ones I loved; my family, my children; but no more. I have broken the cycle of violence that has haunted my life for so many years. I am free. No longer am I a scared child afraid of the unknown. I look forward to learning and living my new life. All I ever knew was abuse, so I lived abuse. Now I have had a taste of hard work and self worth. I am stronger and with so much pride. I am somebody; I am Maria a woman a mother of four a sister and a daughter. I am no longer afraid of my abuser. I have cemented in me a life without fear. I figure I dealt with him for so many years I can do anything. I am super woman. It took time for me to believe in myself. It doesn’t happen over night. At times it felt like forever. But here I am a year without pain. I have so much more than I ever had in my life. I have me back. And I am continuing to grow each day that passes. I have people that love me and I love them back. I appreciate everything in my life, right down to the penny in my pocket. I am happy. I will continue my journey as well as my growth. Where ever it leads me, I am ready to take it on. The skies the limit and the stars are within my reach…..
My name is Maria and I am a survivor of Domestic Violence.
October 10, 2007
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